PakMediNet Discussion Forum : Obstetrics and Gynecology : Need an urgent help
Dear Gynocologist I am in need of your urgent help. I am a 25 years old boy.I have got marrid recently and I dont want to have kids now..But i have got a serious problem now..My wife has got pregnant beacause of not using protection for once and we both want to get rid of this unwanted pregnancy. we really dont know what steps should be taken now to do so.Could u advise us what should we do and for your knowledge its runing the first month of her pregnancy.
We would be thankful to you if you help us out with this.
Posted by: sahir Posts: 4 :: 26-03-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
Beta It is Allah's Blessing so you should accept it Moreover as a gynecologist I would advice you that termination of pregnaney might cause serious complications for your wife in future
Posted by: mrsaalijah Posts: 2 :: 27-03-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
Sir..
we really want to terminate it. I can understand your advice about having serious complications of it in future ,,but we both as a couple are ready to take this risk and both are agree not to have kids so early in our lives because of some social problems.we dont think we can afford having kids so early in our lives and we want to terminate this pregnancy..just for once and we will not repeat this act again. and I think it would have less complications now because the pregnancy is in early stage and if we get late then it wud be a difficult and painfull process to do.Thats why sir we beg your help..please prescribe us some sort of drugs and their use so that we can terminate this pregnancy and I promise you that we will not let this act to be repeated and we would love to have kids but latter not now......thanks we are really looking forward to your help. Dont take us wrong and deal it as a social matter nothing else.
Posted by: sahir Posts: 4 :: 27-03-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
one of my friend donot have kids. if you continue this pregnancy and baby is born, he will be ready to adopt the baby. it will be totally secret. are you ready? may i contact you?
Posted by: BVHOSPITAL Posts: 131 :: 03-04-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
I AM WAITING FOR YOUR REPLY
Posted by: BVHOSPITAL Posts: 131 :: 05-04-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
Thank you so much sir for considering our matter. To be honest sir I think u have taken us wrong..Its not about having some financial problem with us that We cant raise a child..Its all about the age of my wife I dont want to indulge her so early in this bussiness of having kids,,I just want to delay this proceess of having kids for an year or two,,and it wud be too much tough for her and even for me to dump our first child to someone else..I am a layman to health system I dont know about the ethics apply in our health system..so please sir if it is etheical and legal and u guys have no legal restrictions in doing it(abortion) please help us in this moment of sever anxiety and confusion and I think we are getting late day by day,,so sir it wud be better for us to do it by drugs now than to go to a maternity home and do it there latter with something like a painful procedures...We would be looking forward to yous precise advice and guidence we both beg you to help us out of this messy conditions... My love and salam to all of you doctors..
Posted by: sahir Posts: 4 :: 05-04-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
dear friend! Abortion is illegal in law of our country and it is unethical as well.
Posted by: residentfc Posts: 3 :: 11-04-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
Salam
Pregnancy can only be terminated if it serious danger to life of mother, otherwise it is just like killing of a person. so i think you should accept it. May God help you.
Posted by: aftabac Posts: 271 :: 13-04-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
your are posing your problemas you have done some thing wrong and you wan tto abolish this soon. dear brother when you married you must have realized the se things and planned your life. Kidds are blessings from Allah. you will realize when you will have........ just dont kill innocent........
May Allah give you courage .....
Posted by: tariqwahab Posts: 11 :: 05-05-2009 :: | Reply to this Message